That would be regrettable. I hope that you can find the attitude of 'well, my pairing isn't going to be canon, but I've liked most everything B&M have done so far,',

That was my attitude before fandom got so freaking intense, and I'm doing my best to get back to that place. It helps that after getting burned too many times with spoilers (which totally did not help, I'm barely in the fandom anymmore). I mean, I always knew the Katara/Zuko wasn't going to be canon (was happier that way, frankly) but M & B have always given me subtext to work with, and I was totally happy with that.