I read that as "And while I'm on the subject STOP ENCOURAGING THINGS THAT TREAT YOUR GENDER BADLY AND FIND THINGS THAT DO IF IT'S GOING TO MATTER TO YOU!" (Which is kinda my mindset, but if I were writing secrets, I would have made it a separate thing instead of randomly tangenting off into another thing." But then, I also did to just completely slide off most things where I don't like the female characters or how they're treated, often without even noticing.)