Same. But I don't want to be all hoity-toity about it, going 'well, that little bit of difference makes me TOTALLY DIFFERENT from girls who just like straight up ravishment fantasies.' (Not that I think you saying that.)

Oh yeah, definitely not trying to be all, "my kink is better than your kink / my pr0n is better than your pr0n!" <----this sentence SO sums up half of all fandom shitfits.