I know! If she's going to lose, at least let her lose with some dignity and class.

Once book 5 come out Rowling had such problems with characterization. And yes, Remus/Tonks was so much better when she wasn't writing it and it was all subtext. I never actually thought she'd make that relationship canon, and I was so sorry when she did. All the romances in book 6 felt like I was reading fanfic, and not the awesome, 'this is so good I wish it were canon' kind. I could rant for hours about the problems with book 5 and 6.