I really understand where you're coming from but I feel that if we give all this page time to straight relationships and sexuality, it's supporting the idea that being gay is something that we shouldn't talk about. I'm not suggesting that orientation should supplant quirks or being well rounded, but I don't think it should be this hidden thing either.

But I should have phrased what I was saying better - I do think sexuality is an important aspect of who someone is, but I don't think it, like, changes their personality or influences character traits (beyond what gender they like to have in their bed).