*shrugs* Fandom opinions are manifestations of core beliefs, which themselves are largely the product of how we were raised and who raised us. (And genetics. It's actually kind of frightening how much those control our non-physical traits.)

But I understand the nerves, I think. It really isn't my place to comment on other people's familial relationships, especially when I know nothing about them and I'm just making assumptions. (Not to mention that Freudian psych is pure squick.)