when you put it that way, that is a pretty unhealthy relationship/attitude from Matt. My problem is that I started watching TVD right after True Blood, and hating the Nice GuyTM and so Matt actually seemed to be just a nice guy.
what hasn't changed...I still have one major fandom and many many minor (obsessive) flings with other fandoms, which to me feels like the totality of my fannish experience - but then little things have changed, like I now "get" vids and enjoy watching them, and have let femslash and het into my reading, and it took me a couple years to discover meta, but when I did I was all over that. Actually, getting an lj was a big change - huh. I guess more has changed than I thought.
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what hasn't changed...I still have one major fandom and many many minor (obsessive) flings with other fandoms, which to me feels like the totality of my fannish experience - but then little things have changed, like I now "get" vids and enjoy watching them, and have let femslash and het into my reading, and it took me a couple years to discover meta, but when I did I was all over that. Actually, getting an lj was a big change - huh. I guess more has changed than I thought.