Exactly. And honestly, I feel like Elena not having enough problems with the actual BAD THINGS both of her vampire boyfriends are doing is a large part of what is making me frustrated with her character. Because if the writers want to write her that way, fine, but they don't get to then act like Elena is the nicest person in the entire universe, you know?

(Although I am behind a couple of episodes, so. Maybe something different was happening in those eps.)