Heh, yeah, but at the same time, having the really ragingly real-life-powerful, dominant personality who is secretly a deeply submissive bottom in the bedroom is also a bit of a cliche, so really, damned if you do, damned if you don't...
*frowns* Good point. And I agree, along with the 'lazy sunday' I totally believe that relationships should have a mutual tie-ability to them, where it's feasible that each character could top or bottom on any given night. And frankly, I have to admit, I get really tired of the strict top/bottom conversation.
There's a great line where the woman is saying that there has to be a way to dance with both people leading, and the man responses that that's called sex.
And that reminds me, you need to send me the document/link to that fic, now that I'm all caught up and can read it. ^_^ Pretty pretty please?
Speaking of knifeplay, I remember reading one Zuko and Sokka bonding fic that where they were talking about their girlfriends, and Zuko is bragging that Mai carries 47 knives on her, and that he counted once. (And when she's sleeping, she only has 10.) It was cute, even if I hatehatehate that pairing.
no subject
*frowns* Good point. And I agree, along with the 'lazy sunday' I totally believe that relationships should have a mutual tie-ability to them, where it's feasible that each character could top or bottom on any given night. And frankly, I have to admit, I get really tired of the strict top/bottom conversation.
There's a great line where the woman is saying that there has to be a way to dance with both people leading, and the man responses that that's called sex.
And that reminds me, you need to send me the document/link to that fic, now that I'm all caught up and can read it. ^_^ Pretty pretty please?
Speaking of knifeplay, I remember reading one Zuko and Sokka bonding fic that where they were talking about their girlfriends, and Zuko is bragging that Mai carries 47 knives on her, and that he counted once. (And when she's sleeping, she only has 10.) It was cute, even if I hatehatehate that pairing.