I pretend the divide doesn't exist and people have the brains to realize you can like two female characters at once, even if they're totally different, or one likes the guy you ship the other with. (They manage it with guys, after all...)

Ignoring the fandom helps with that.

I haven't even considered looking at Pushing Daisies's fandom for the same reason. Aside from the one fandomsecrets secret, I haven't heard much about Chuck vs Olive, but I don't trust fandom enough to find out.