I think I like cunt (if used well), because it's a hard, sharp word that can have dramatic sound, and it's something that you can re-purpose and own. From men it's pretty universally bad, but for women you can, if you make the effort, re-purpose "cunt." In context. But only if you're female. I don't take that shit from male humans.

OTOH, I don't think I can ever repurpose "pussy" into something sexy, to me. There's an inherent weakness to the word at its base metaphor. Pussy will always mean a infantile animal plaything that exists for someone's amusement... or a weaker person who is easily dismissed by others.