Drive-By Update
It is clearly the final month of school; I'm stressed, my to-do list needs two sticky notes to get everything on it, etc.
So if I haven't replied to your comment, it's probably because you wrote something that will take me more than two seconds to respond to; don't worry, I'll respond. Just... not right away.
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Secondly, the latest fandom_secrets post was so incredibly wank-tastic and troll worthy, that it deserves it's own WTF commentary. I'm not going to go into details, except that I have something brief to say about the Sasuke/Sakura/Hinata/Naruto (not in the fun orgy way) secret, since people on my flist are already talking about it:
1.) Sasuke/Sakura and Hinata/Naruto ARE NOT correlated variables: one can happen without the other.
2.) Stepping back from the details of the pairings themselves (since I think everyon already knows my opinion on that), wouldn't it be incredibly problematic if they both happened? Doesn't that send a horrible message to both girls and boys about how girls should just endlessly pursue the object of their desire? And boys should just go 'oh, okay' regardless of who THEY want to be with, because those girls spend so much energy on them? It takes (or it SHOULD) two to tango and neither Sasuke nor Naruto has shown that they are romantically interested in Sakura and Hinata, respectively. Which leads me to point three:
3.) Kishimoto is not writing a romantic adventure manga. Arguing about which pairing will be canon at this time is pointless because Kishimoto has not given us ANYTHING CLOSE to a clear canon signal about what relationships will end up being canon (one-sided crush does not equal 'will be canon'). This is not Avatar: we don't know how Team 7's romantic lives will work out and it's actually somewhat probable with Kishimoto's emphasis on nakama that we WILL NOT get a bunch of pairings in the epilogue (please god).
Thirdly, I watched Star Trek on Sunday and it was the most awesome movie I have seen since Iron Man. Longer post to follow... sooner or later.
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If that's how it works, what would it mean if NaruSaku's canon? That it doesn't matter if both girls' feelings have been shown as much stronger than one male's crush, his is still far more important, for no clear reason besides the fact that "hero deserves vagina of choice, while girls are silly and don't understand their own emotions"? That their happiness (and yes, a girl's happiness relying on the guy they like IS lame, but it's obviously important to both of them) is meaningless compared to a guy deciding he "sort of likes" a girl in a chapter three, and never pursuing it seriously since, aside from trying to trick her into liking him? Has he ever even thought of her in any context besides "she's cute" or "let's get Sasuke back"?
Sakura and Hinata's feelings for Sasuke and Naruto have been a driving force of their development, whereas Naruto's crush on Sakura is nonexistant when she's fighting Sasori alone and only matters when all is well and done. Compare this to Sakura, who ran in to help Sasuke during the Forest of Death, and Hinata, who was willing to give her life to keep him safe, and even all the MANY times Sakura's tried to stop Naruto from turning into Kyuubi.
Naruto LIKES Sakura, that can't be argued. But that's about it. He thinks she's cute, and doesn't tend to notice if she's upset. He can comfort her, but never in any way aside from "I'll get Sasuke back". He's had more of a meaningful relationship with Gaara or Jiraiya, and definitely Sasuke. He seems to understand them, but he really doesn't seem to understand Sakura. So, why is it that he automatically is entitled to her vagina?
Even if Sakura no longer romantically cares for Sasuke, what about Hinata? How would that narratively make sense? "Sorry, even if you knew he had potential since the beginning and Sakura didn't see it until the last minute, and you even had the courage to admit it before she even realized she liked him, you're still awkward and 'not normal' and didn't stand out as much as she did, so too bad"? It's not as if it's impossible for Naruto to ever like Hinata. He even says the reason he likes Sakura is because he understands her need to be accepted, which Hinata has in a way that's FAR more similiar to his situation. Unlike Hinata who downright loves him, he seems to have little more than a fidgety crush on Sakura where he can't even have a conversation with her without trying to hit on her.
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On the other hand? I do actually think a woman pursuing/achieving her interests should be empowering/encouraged by the narrative, even if those interests are romantic in nature. I don't like the message that, oh, she should just put her sexual desires aside because LOL NARUTO'S SEXUAL DESIRES 4 SASUKE MATTAR SOOO MUCH MOAR -- well, okay, so the narrative says that's a brotherly relationship, but I mean, the whole series centers on a guy pursuing the guy he's interested in, platonic or not! And then we're told girls should just get over it if they have feelings like that? I don't know. I think that's potentially an even more toxic message about the importance of male desires v. female desires.
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And yeah...I'm with you on #2. I hate the idea of both these girls getting rewarded at the end with the affection of guys who have mistreated/ignored them throughout the series. Not what I consider a romantic ending. And it's not because I hate Naruto and Sasuke, but because I hate that particular ideal - that the way to true love is being loyal to your significant other no matter what happens/how they treat you. Nice thought, but...not so much. Especially if it's only the girls who get their romantic happiness that way. I would especially hate it if the couples are shoved together in a Harry Potter style epilogue without showing WHY or HOW it came to be.
Sakura ending up with Naruto is, in my opinion, slightly less crazy-making, but not much. I don't want him to have, like, 'earned' her by becoming the STRONGEST NINJA EVER, and I'm afraid Kishi will frame it that way if it happens. And then that leaves Hinata alone and unhappy
and ripe for Neji to swoop inand that's no good either.NAKAMA, Kishi. GO NAKAMA.
PS - I started watching Avatar, and it's really, really addictive.
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I agree completely with this.
I just find SasuSaku to be incredibly unhealthy; with NaruHina, Naruto is oblivious of Hinata's romantic feelings, yet even so he's always had a positive, supportive relationship with her as a friend. Sasuke, on the other hand, is openly dismissive of Sakura when they're younger, and the reader is more or less encouraged to empathize with Sasuke during those moments. This just bugs me tremendously. It's a major problem for SasuSaku that Kishimoto had intended Sakura's obsessive interest in Sasuke to be a character flaw, as hieronymousb says. I think it does send a negative message if they end up together, as it seems to imply that Sakura's personal growth throughout the series is really just all about making her 'good enough' for Sasuke's standards (this was one thing that bugged me about Harry/Ginny in HP as well, that Ginny was transformed into practically a Mary Sue to be 'worthy' of Harry.)
...And well, I adore SaiSaku, even if it probably won't happen. ;)
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I really don't see why it's so important for pairings to ever become canon anyway. Is your imagination so barren that you can't imagine how a romantic scene would go between two characters without the medium of the series' creator, fandom?
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PS: that icon always cracks me up
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OMG. SAME HERE.
As I do ship NaruSaku, pairing wars and blah blah blah just literally burn me out. Hell, the Naruto fandom itself burns me out. I mean, at this point, I almost don't care whether NaruSaku becomes canon or not. @_@
Maybe crack pairings are the way to go... hmmmm.But, really, it'll all just go to hell whether pairings happen or not. :/(no subject)
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Besides, I'm really starting to think that there aren't going to be any definitive endgame ships.
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