"Intimate Psychotherapy" *wink wink nudge nudge*

[redbrunja]

Trope Meme:

Comment with a trope and I’ll give you my opinions on it. You can ask questions (as vague or specific as you like!), talk about examples, etc, etc. Then I’ll ask you about a trope.

And while we're on the subject of tropes, can I just say.... okay, look, I know that 'healing cock' gets a lot of dissing, and I understand why, BUT to be honest, I felt the sex is often pretty pivotal to my enjoyment of hurt/comfort (which I love). Like, after the hurt, I really do want to see boning, or some sexually laden act 90% of the time.

For example, I was reading this pretty decent Clint/Darcy fic in which Darcy had past emotional trauma and I was getting super into it, and there was this total slow burn thing going on, and Darcy was trusting Clint more and more, and Clint was being super-patient and expressing his lust and affection in ways make Darcy feel safe and then.... they hold hands. The end. And I was like, 'BUT WHAT ABOUT THE BONING?'

I've recced The Goat's Back before (Steve Rogers, gen, hurt/comfort) and while that fic is amazing, there was a voice in my head that shrieked, at several points, Natasha Romanoff, get on that. (That being Steve.)

Comments

[redbrunja.livejournal.com]

1.) A fan, in the sense that I like ensembles. Not thrilled it they are all literally dudes, thought.

2.) Not a fan. I love love that someone THINKS is unrequited but it turns out that it is.

3.) Not usually a big fan, simply because Cthulhu stories (and stories of that scope) are not my fav.

For you:

1.) If You Hurt Her (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/IfYouEverDoAnythingToHurtHer)

2.) Defrosting the ice queen (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DefrostingIceQueen)

3.) Thank God we're alive sex. (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GladToBeAliveSex)

[qualapec.livejournal.com]

1) Yes, but not between two rivals for a woman's affection. I prefer it when it's a close friend warning the love interest.

2) I can like it if it's done well.

3) BIG YES, this and many of the variations on it. I also like Pre-Climax Climax, and I'm not sure if there's a trope name for it, but sex where one of them is going to die soon, for whatever reason (but again, this has to be done very carefully, and I'm not interested unless there is some HARDCORE and genuine emotion going on).

[redbrunja.livejournal.com]

1) Yes, but not between two rivals for a woman's affection. I prefer it when it's a close friend warning the love interest.

Honestly, I didn't know love-rivals actually did this. I always see it with friend or family (and yeah, love rivals tend to have skeevy implications regarding the woman not having consent with who she's with when it plays out that way).

3) BIG YES, this and many of the variations on it.

Same here.